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* 4-11-4:指大阴茎。因为美国有说法“the .44 Magnum as the most powerful handgun in the world”,而44=4英寸的周长*11英寸的长度
* 4-11-4:指大阴茎。因为美国有说法“the .44 Magnum as the most powerful handgun in the world”,而44=4英寸的周长*11英寸的长度
== 英文黑话 ==
== 英文黑话 ==
===A-Z===
(待翻译)
A is for Aftercare
Aftercare is the practice of checking in with one another after a scene (or “play session,” a.k.a., the time in which the BDSM happens) to make sure all parties feel nice and chill about what just went down. The dominant partner may bring the submissive ice for any bruises, but it’s important to know that aftercare involves emotional care as well as physical. BDSM releases endorphins, which can lead to both dominants and submissives experiencing a “drop.” Aftercare can help prevent that. There’s often cuddling and always conversation; kinksters need love too.
B is for Bondage
Bondage is the act of tying one another up. In most cases the dominant partner is restraining the submissive using ropes, handcuffs, Velcro, specialty hooks, clasps, or simply a belt if you’re on a budget.
C is for Cuckold
We can’t let the alt-right ruin the term “cuck” for us. Traditionally, a cuck is a man who enjoys, often for submissive and erotic humiliation reasons, watching another man have sex with his wife. In a cuckolding scene, the other man invited to have sex with the wife is a “bull.” Female cucks are referred to as “cuck queens,” but people of all genders can be cucks.
D is for D/S
D/S refers to dominance and submission, the crux of a BDSM relationship. While kinky people can be on a spectrum (see: “Switch”), typically you’re either dominant or submissive. If you take away one fact from this guide, it should be that even though the dominant partner in D/S relationship may be slapping, name-calling, and spitting on the submissive, BDSM and D/S relationships are all about erotic power exchange, not one person having power over another. The submissive gets to set their boundaries, and everything is pre-negotiated. The submissive likes getting slapped (see also: “Painslut”).
E is for Edgeplay
Edgeplay refers to the risky shit—the more taboo (or baddest bitch, depending on who you’re talking to) end of the spectrum of BDSM activities. Everyone’s definition of edgeplay is a little different, but blood or knife play is a good example. If there’s actually a chance of real physical harm, it’s likely edgeplay. Only get bloody with a partner who knows what they’re doing without a doubt and has been tested for STIs. You don’t have to get maimed to enjoy BDSM.
F is for Foot Fetish
One of the most common fetishes out there, a foot fetish is an attraction—often a need—for feet. Foot fetishists may enjoy worshiping a foot, kissing it, smelling it, massaging it, getting a footjob, licking it, sucking on toes, or (actually) getting stepped on.
G is for Golden Showers
A golden shower is when you lovingly shower your partner with your piss. It’s high time for the BDSM community to reclaim this word from Donald Trump, who, may I remind you, allegedly paid sex workers to pee on a bed that Obama slept in out of spite. This is not the same thing as a golden shower. Kink is for smart people.
H is for Hard Limits
Hard limits are sexual acts that are off-limits. Everyone has their own, and you have to discuss these boundaries before any BDSM play. Use it in a sentence: “Please do not pee on me; golden showers are one of my hard limits.”
I is for Impact Play
Impact play refers to any impact on the body, such as spanking, caning, flogging, slapping, etc.
J is for Japanese Bondage
The most well-known type of Japanese bondage is Shibari, in which one partner ties up the other in beautiful and intricate patterns using rope. It’s a method of restraint, but also an art form.
K is for Knife Play
Knife play is, well, knife sex. It’s considered a form of edgeplay (our parents told us not to play with knives for a reason.) If you do play with knives, do it with someone who truly respects you and whom you trust. Often knife play doesn’t actually involve drawing blood, but is done more for the psychological thrill, such as gliding a knife along a partner’s body to induce an adrenaline rush. Call me a prude, but I wouldn’t advise it on a first Tinder date.
L is for Leather
The BDSM community enjoys leather as much as you’d expect. Leather shorts, leather paddles, and leather corsets are popular, although increasingly kinky retailers provide vegan options for their animal-loving geeks.
M is for Masochist
A masochist is someone who gets off on receiving sexual pain.
N is for Needle Play
Also a form of edgeplay (blood!), needle play means using needles on a partner. Hopefully those needles are sterile and surgical grade. Don’t do this with an idiot, please. Most professional dommes have clients who request or are into needle play. It can involve sticking a needle (temporarily) through an erogenous zone such as the nipple or... BACK AWAY NOW IF YOU'RE QUEASY... the shaft of the penis.
O is for Orgasm Denial
You know how sexual anticipation is hot AF? Orgasm denial is next-level sexual anticipation for those who love a throbbing clit or a boner that’s been hard forever just dying to get off—which is to say, almost everyone. The dominant partner will typically bring the submissive close or to the brink of orgasm, then stop. Repeat as necessary.
P is for Painslut
A painslut is a dope-ass submissive who knows what they want, and that’s pain, dammit.
Q is for Queening
Queening is when a woman, a.k.a. the queen you must worship, sits on your face. It’s just a glam name for face-sitting, often used in D/S play. Sometimes the queen will sit on her submissive’s face for like, hours.
R is for RACK
RACK stands for Risk Aware Consensual Kink, which are the BDSM community guidelines on how to make sure everyone is aware of the dangers they consent to. Another set of guidelines are the “SSC,” which stresses keeping activities “safe, sane, and consensual.” We kinksters want everyone to feel happy and fulfilled, and only experience pain that they desire—without actual harm.
S is for Switch
A switch is someone who enjoys both the dominant and submissive role. Get thee a girl who can do both.
T is for Topping From The Bottom
Topping from the bottom refers to when a bottom (sub) gets bratty and tries to control the scene even though negotiations state they should submit. For example, a submissive male may start yelping at his domme that she’s not making him smell her feet exactly like he wants. It can be pretty annoying. It can also be part of the scene itself, such as if the submissive is roleplaying as a little girl with her daddy (this is called “age play”).
U is for Urination
Urinating means peeing (duh) and aside from pissing on a submissive’s face or in their mouth you can do other cool and consensual things with urine, like fill up an enema and inject it up someone’s butt! I am not a medical doctor.
V is for Voyeurism
A voyeur is someone who enjoys watching others have sex, undress, or whatever floats your erection boat. Voyeurs can get a bad name, because we think of peeping Toms, but there are lots of wonderful ways for a voyeur to consensually engage with their kink, such as going to a play (sex) party or kink event. Voyeurs watch the exhibitionists and everyone wins.
W is for Wartenberg Wheel
A Wartenberg Wheel is a nifty little metal pinwheel that you can run over your partner’s nipples or other erogenous zones. It looks scary, but in a fun way, like the Addams Family. It can be used as part of medical play (doctor fetish) or just for the hell of it. Fun fact: It’s a real-life medical device created by neurologist Robert Wartenberg to test nerve reactions, but kinksters figured out it was good for the sex, too.
Y is for Yes!
BDSM is all about enthusiastic consent. The dominant partner won’t step on their submissive’s head and then shove it into a toilet without a big ole’ “yes, please!”
Z is for Zentai
Zentai is a skintight Japanese body suit typically made of spandex and nylon. It can cover the entire body, including the face. Dance teams or athletes may wear Zentai, but some people get off on the sensation of having their entire body bound in tight fabric, and wear it for kinky reasons.
=== 缩写 ===
=== 缩写 ===
*SSC:safe, sane and consensual的缩写,出自David Stein,即安全、理智、知情同意,是早起大部分BDSM实践者的哲学观以及安全口号。由于词汇的主观性,此口号逐渐被RACK替代。
*SSC:safe, sane and consensual的缩写,出自David Stein,即安全、理智、知情同意,是早起大部分BDSM实践者的哲学观以及安全口号。由于词汇的主观性,此口号逐渐被RACK替代。
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*BBC:即Big Black Cock。类似有BWC {{黑幕|照理说也有BAC,但到目前为止我没遇到这种写法}}
*BBC:即Big Black Cock。类似有BWC {{黑幕|照理说也有BAC,但到目前为止我没遇到这种写法}}


*Top and Bottom:主奴或攻受
*CBT:Cock and Ball Torture,阴茎或睾丸折磨
=== 黑话 ===
=== 黑话 ===
* go to down:激烈的性行为
* go to down:激烈的性行为

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BDSM亚文化随着多年发展,衍生出了数目繁多的术语黑话,在丰富了文化的同时,也增加了萌新入圈的难度。本页面专门用来收集BDSM相关的黑话以及术语,尤其是某些不便于单独创建页面的词语,不限次元。

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数字黑话

  • 24/7:一种调教方式,甚至是一种生活风格,指全天24小时、每周7天维持主奴状态
  • 24/6:主要在美国使用,意思是一周七天除了去教堂的日子,其余时间都时刻准备进行性行为
  • 2*4:两位男性对一位女性进行的四种常见性行为(阴道,肛门,口腔,乳房)
  • 39:意为舔肛[1],来自象形。类似的还有“三又零分之零”。对应的英文单词为anilingus(较正式),rim(口语说法)和lick(所有的舔)
  • 4-11-4:指大阴茎。因为美国有说法“the .44 Magnum as the most powerful handgun in the world”,而44=4英寸的周长*11英寸的长度

英文黑话

A-Z

(待翻译) A is for Aftercare Aftercare is the practice of checking in with one another after a scene (or “play session,” a.k.a., the time in which the BDSM happens) to make sure all parties feel nice and chill about what just went down. The dominant partner may bring the submissive ice for any bruises, but it’s important to know that aftercare involves emotional care as well as physical. BDSM releases endorphins, which can lead to both dominants and submissives experiencing a “drop.” Aftercare can help prevent that. There’s often cuddling and always conversation; kinksters need love too.

B is for Bondage Bondage is the act of tying one another up. In most cases the dominant partner is restraining the submissive using ropes, handcuffs, Velcro, specialty hooks, clasps, or simply a belt if you’re on a budget.

C is for Cuckold We can’t let the alt-right ruin the term “cuck” for us. Traditionally, a cuck is a man who enjoys, often for submissive and erotic humiliation reasons, watching another man have sex with his wife. In a cuckolding scene, the other man invited to have sex with the wife is a “bull.” Female cucks are referred to as “cuck queens,” but people of all genders can be cucks.

D is for D/S D/S refers to dominance and submission, the crux of a BDSM relationship. While kinky people can be on a spectrum (see: “Switch”), typically you’re either dominant or submissive. If you take away one fact from this guide, it should be that even though the dominant partner in D/S relationship may be slapping, name-calling, and spitting on the submissive, BDSM and D/S relationships are all about erotic power exchange, not one person having power over another. The submissive gets to set their boundaries, and everything is pre-negotiated. The submissive likes getting slapped (see also: “Painslut”).

E is for Edgeplay Edgeplay refers to the risky shit—the more taboo (or baddest bitch, depending on who you’re talking to) end of the spectrum of BDSM activities. Everyone’s definition of edgeplay is a little different, but blood or knife play is a good example. If there’s actually a chance of real physical harm, it’s likely edgeplay. Only get bloody with a partner who knows what they’re doing without a doubt and has been tested for STIs. You don’t have to get maimed to enjoy BDSM.

F is for Foot Fetish One of the most common fetishes out there, a foot fetish is an attraction—often a need—for feet. Foot fetishists may enjoy worshiping a foot, kissing it, smelling it, massaging it, getting a footjob, licking it, sucking on toes, or (actually) getting stepped on.

G is for Golden Showers A golden shower is when you lovingly shower your partner with your piss. It’s high time for the BDSM community to reclaim this word from Donald Trump, who, may I remind you, allegedly paid sex workers to pee on a bed that Obama slept in out of spite. This is not the same thing as a golden shower. Kink is for smart people.

H is for Hard Limits Hard limits are sexual acts that are off-limits. Everyone has their own, and you have to discuss these boundaries before any BDSM play. Use it in a sentence: “Please do not pee on me; golden showers are one of my hard limits.”

I is for Impact Play Impact play refers to any impact on the body, such as spanking, caning, flogging, slapping, etc.

J is for Japanese Bondage The most well-known type of Japanese bondage is Shibari, in which one partner ties up the other in beautiful and intricate patterns using rope. It’s a method of restraint, but also an art form.

K is for Knife Play Knife play is, well, knife sex. It’s considered a form of edgeplay (our parents told us not to play with knives for a reason.) If you do play with knives, do it with someone who truly respects you and whom you trust. Often knife play doesn’t actually involve drawing blood, but is done more for the psychological thrill, such as gliding a knife along a partner’s body to induce an adrenaline rush. Call me a prude, but I wouldn’t advise it on a first Tinder date.

L is for Leather The BDSM community enjoys leather as much as you’d expect. Leather shorts, leather paddles, and leather corsets are popular, although increasingly kinky retailers provide vegan options for their animal-loving geeks.

M is for Masochist A masochist is someone who gets off on receiving sexual pain.

N is for Needle Play Also a form of edgeplay (blood!), needle play means using needles on a partner. Hopefully those needles are sterile and surgical grade. Don’t do this with an idiot, please. Most professional dommes have clients who request or are into needle play. It can involve sticking a needle (temporarily) through an erogenous zone such as the nipple or... BACK AWAY NOW IF YOU'RE QUEASY... the shaft of the penis.

O is for Orgasm Denial You know how sexual anticipation is hot AF? Orgasm denial is next-level sexual anticipation for those who love a throbbing clit or a boner that’s been hard forever just dying to get off—which is to say, almost everyone. The dominant partner will typically bring the submissive close or to the brink of orgasm, then stop. Repeat as necessary.

P is for Painslut A painslut is a dope-ass submissive who knows what they want, and that’s pain, dammit.

Q is for Queening Queening is when a woman, a.k.a. the queen you must worship, sits on your face. It’s just a glam name for face-sitting, often used in D/S play. Sometimes the queen will sit on her submissive’s face for like, hours.

R is for RACK RACK stands for Risk Aware Consensual Kink, which are the BDSM community guidelines on how to make sure everyone is aware of the dangers they consent to. Another set of guidelines are the “SSC,” which stresses keeping activities “safe, sane, and consensual.” We kinksters want everyone to feel happy and fulfilled, and only experience pain that they desire—without actual harm.

S is for Switch A switch is someone who enjoys both the dominant and submissive role. Get thee a girl who can do both.

T is for Topping From The Bottom Topping from the bottom refers to when a bottom (sub) gets bratty and tries to control the scene even though negotiations state they should submit. For example, a submissive male may start yelping at his domme that she’s not making him smell her feet exactly like he wants. It can be pretty annoying. It can also be part of the scene itself, such as if the submissive is roleplaying as a little girl with her daddy (this is called “age play”).

U is for Urination Urinating means peeing (duh) and aside from pissing on a submissive’s face or in their mouth you can do other cool and consensual things with urine, like fill up an enema and inject it up someone’s butt! I am not a medical doctor.

V is for Voyeurism A voyeur is someone who enjoys watching others have sex, undress, or whatever floats your erection boat. Voyeurs can get a bad name, because we think of peeping Toms, but there are lots of wonderful ways for a voyeur to consensually engage with their kink, such as going to a play (sex) party or kink event. Voyeurs watch the exhibitionists and everyone wins.

W is for Wartenberg Wheel A Wartenberg Wheel is a nifty little metal pinwheel that you can run over your partner’s nipples or other erogenous zones. It looks scary, but in a fun way, like the Addams Family. It can be used as part of medical play (doctor fetish) or just for the hell of it. Fun fact: It’s a real-life medical device created by neurologist Robert Wartenberg to test nerve reactions, but kinksters figured out it was good for the sex, too.

Y is for Yes! BDSM is all about enthusiastic consent. The dominant partner won’t step on their submissive’s head and then shove it into a toilet without a big ole’ “yes, please!”

Z is for Zentai Zentai is a skintight Japanese body suit typically made of spandex and nylon. It can cover the entire body, including the face. Dance teams or athletes may wear Zentai, but some people get off on the sensation of having their entire body bound in tight fabric, and wear it for kinky reasons.

缩写

  • SSC:safe, sane and consensual的缩写,出自David Stein,即安全、理智、知情同意,是早起大部分BDSM实践者的哲学观以及安全口号。由于词汇的主观性,此口号逐渐被RACK替代。
  • RACK:Risk Aware Consensual Kink的缩写,即“共知风险的两愿实践”,是在现实中进行BDSM行为的认知基础,包括承认BDSM行为具有一定的危险性,并在遵循一定原则的前提下开展BDSM行为。
  • GMSMA:Gay Male S/M Activists的缩写,意即男同志S/M行动主义者
  • SP:spanking的缩写,即打屁股
  • TS:transsexual的缩写,指的是有跨性别人士参与的BDSM行为
  • CD:cross-dressing的缩写,即变装调教,诸如女装调教便归于此类
  • OTK:over the knee的缩写,指的是M趴在S的膝盖上被SP
  • CUM:是come的变体与缩写,意为射精 come在现代英语中已经有了很强的性意味,现实生活中请避免单独使用。比如,想表达“我正在来的路上”,“I'm coming!”会被很多人认为是“我要高潮了”,而“ I'm on the way”才是“我正在来的路上”
  • BBC:即Big Black Cock。类似有BWC 照理说也有BAC,但到目前为止我没遇到这种写法
  • Top and Bottom:主奴或攻受
  • CBT:Cock and Ball Torture,阴茎或睾丸折磨

黑话

  • go to down:激烈的性行为
  • fetish:恋物癖。比如foot fetish即为恋足癖。
  • 15 fingers:3P的隐晦说法
  • 4 on the floor:准备好被后入
  • 6 if you count the shadow:用来羞辱一个人的阴茎十分短小
  • 175er:指代和同性恋相关的人或行为。来源是1872年德国法律的第175条禁止同性恋,该法律后来被废止。
  • acorn:龟头的隐语。
  • coat hanger:一种铁制工具,用来在内射之后进行清理与避孕,在部分语境下等同为中文黑话里的“深度插入”,即触及子宫口或乙状结肠的插入(该用法不多见。此外深度插入有相当的危险性,实践时要温柔对待,乙状结肠比较脆弱不适合快速的来回抽插,同时过度刺激可能诱发心脏病)。在英语口语中,coat hanger意为“喝醉了酒走路跌跌撞撞”或者“撞到了东西”。
  • pull out:在快要射精前将阴茎从阴道里抽出[2]
  • toss a salad:舔肛
  • Cleveland steamer:排遗到性伴胸口并像蒸汽压路机一样前后碾动。
  • scat:与排遗物相关的行为。

K+数字系列

由于英文canine(adj.狗的)谐音k9,故国际上将k9作为狗奴“puppy slave”的代称。

国内玩家通过中文谐音和象形,为K0-K8也赋予了意义[3],罗列如下:

  • k0:厕奴(0像张大嘴)
  • k1:侍奴(1像一个站立服侍的人)
  • k2:跪奴(2像跪着的人)
  • k3:刑奴(3像一个屁股)
  • k4:绳奴(4像被绑着的人)
  • k5:猪奴(5像大腹便便的一个胖子)
  • k6:性奴(six谐音sex)
  • k7:妻奴或夫奴(7谐音妻)
  • k8:猫奴(k9向上顺延)

舶来词

  • bukkake:来自日语ぶっかけ,指的是一群男性依次将精液射在同一对象的脸上。
  • gokkun:来自日语拟声词ごっくん,指的是饮用用容器盛载后的多人的精液。

中文黑话

行为

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争议词汇

注:某些行为诸如秀色严重违反了BDSM“安全、理智、知情同意”的基本原则,理论上不属于BDSM而应被归类于性虐待(关于这二者的差异请参阅性虐待),在此列出仅作警示。

  • 秀色:吃尸体或渴望被吃的情结
  • 蓝志:秀色中杀人的一方
  • 志蜜:秀色中自愿被杀或被吃的一方[4]

拓展阅读

相关图书

学院派

  • 虐恋亚文化
    可以看作一部西方BDSM的研究史与文献综述。
  • The Ethical Slut
    严格意义上说不算学院派,但很值得打算实践SM的各种性取向的人士读的一本书,本书致力于探讨性与道德,以及处于BDSM关系中的我们应该具有的三观。
  • 福柯的相关著作(在阅读前可以先阅读福柯的生死爱欲以了解背景)
  • 弗洛伊德的相关著作

实战派

通识
  • Healthcare Without Shame
    BDSM实践者的必读书目,详细讨论了各种行为的健康风险以及预防措施,也有心态建设的相关内容
  • 我的身体我的心
    日文原书为身体も心もボクのもの~はじめてのSMガイド~,国内翻译组的译本名为我的身体我的心,共两本,图文并茂,介绍了SM中的各自玩法以及应该具有的心态。优点是写作风格平易近人,缺点是大部分主题的深度不够。
  • SM 101: A Realistic Introduction
    顾名思义,本书是一本实战性的入门指南。成书于上世纪90年代,作者Jay Wiseman是一名专业的BDSM内容创作者,在21世纪亦有其他作品问世,但都不如这本全面。本书前半部分详细介绍了BDSM的基本概念(诸如类型划分、安全词等),寻找组织以及伙伴的方法和注意事项;后半部分先是介绍了捆绑、疼痛施加、鞭打、限制、 折磨、羞辱、言语调教和24/7等常见玩法及其注意事项,然后用了大量篇幅介绍如何在BDSM行为中保持安全。总之是一本很好的入门书。
    另外此书只有英文版,但所用词汇和句法基本是四六级水平,即使英语不太好也可以去尝试阅读。
  • The New Top Book
    写给主的操作指南
  • The New Bottom Book
    写给奴的操作指南。
    以上两本书均可以在Kindle商店里买到电子版。
  • Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns : The Romance and Sexual Sorcery of Sadomasochism
  • 五十道陰影的調教性愛指南
    更加全面的BDSM指南,包括野战、感官剥夺等都有讨论
  • Come Hither: A Commonsense Guide To Kinky Sex
  • Consensual Sadomasochism: How To Talk About It and Do It Safely
  • Different Loving
  • Learning the Ropes: A Basic Guide to Safe and Fun S/m Lovemaking
  • Sensuous Magic
专题
  • 绳缚本事
    捆绑指南
  • Anal Pleasure and Health: Guide for Men, Women and Couples
    肛门调教指南,适用于各种性别
  • A Hand in the Bush: The Fine Art of Vaginal Fisting
    阴道拳交指南
  • Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women
    肛门调教指南,适用于女性
  • Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Men
    肛门调教指南,适用于男性

文艺作品

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注释与外部链接

  1. 数字黑话部分的主要参考文献为The Big Black Book of Very Dirty Words
  2. 英文例句:Pulling out is what your dad forgot to do.
  3. 改写自老羊-S发表与豆瓣的文章
  4. 这两个名称起源自2013年ES人士对四大网哲之一的林淏泽进行的迫害。林给自己取的笔名叫“冰迷蓝志”,随后ES人士通过修改百度百科让蓝志和志蜜具备了上述的意思。随后,许多有秀色情结的新人在查询百度百科之后稀里糊涂接受了这两个称呼,导致这两个词语彻底和冰恋与秀色联系在了一起